18 and I just want to settle down most of the time.
Am I too young to be feeling like that?
I just feel like i’m so done with all those heart breaks, ups and downs etc….. sometimes I just wish I could settle down now ….i’d obviously continue studying but I just wish I could have some sort of relationship where I can just settle down in, I think it would make life easier sometimes, being in love does that. I don’t need anyone telling me ‘you don’t need a relationship to feel complete’ ..in my religion it’s something you have to do and I don’t feel I need it to necessary
feel complete but I feel it’s something I have to do, so why can’t I just do it now instead of having to deal with a few more years of heart breaks and emotional ups and downs? My religion also tells me that marriage is completing half of your religion/religious duties. A long relationship would be nice, but those tend to not happen for me :/ ….and plus my religion doesn’t really allow it either and I can’t seem to meet anyone that I want to spend my life with!
I see couples who’ve been together for years, they seem so settled and more to themselves and focused on what matters in life…..
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